I don't know if I'm pregnant
Posted: Saturday, March 14, 2009
by Angelita Zavala
I'm 15 & my boyfriend is 19 we have been together for about 2 months. We have been having unprotected sex & I'm on the pill but i lost them so i have not been taking them for like 2 weeks. My mom does not know that I have lost them. I really don't know what 2 do I'm confused. The middle of my stomach is hard & I get these cramps & I really don't know if I'm pregnant of not. It's hard for me since I have 7 younger brothers & sisters. I don't want to worry my mom if I'm not pregnant.But I really want to make sure. I'm really worried that if I am pregnant how will i tell my boyfriend. He already has a daughter with his ex-girlfriend & she is 2 years old. But me & him always talk about stuff like if I were pregnant he would help. But he is very sensitive because he has never had a chance to have his daughter be with him. I always tell him that if I were to get pregnant by him he would be able to sleep with our baby at night & have him or her in his ams.But I really want to know if that if the middle of my stomach is hard & me gettin all these cramps are a sign of me being pregnant? Or should I ask my mom to get a pregnancy test or just wait & see if I get my period?
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Top-level comments on this article: (6 total)AngelitaI am surprised that you wrote this in searwarp. You should be going to the doctor. 15 is a very tender age to get pregnant and you could be in a mess already.Take care of oyurself, both physically, spiritually and mentally.Hope that you get out of this trouble and be able to disern right from wrong.Swapna
Well... That's definatly a problem. Do you know if you get painful cramps when you get your period? MAke an appointment with your GP asap. It's aloud to be totaly confidentail so your parents dont have to find out. You could try to get one of your older friends to get you a pregnancy test or pretend your sixteen and buy one...
Take Swapna's advise and see a doctor. Also, re-examine your life and ask yourself why a 15 year old girl needs to be having sex. You're still a child and you should be having a childhood, not a baby. If you are pregnant, then you'll need to take the responsibility; if you're not pregnant, then take this scare as a life lesson and change your habits. You still have plenty of time for sex with the one that will be your life partner, but wait until you are married.
3 weeks a go i slept wi my boyfeind and i came on my period afew days after but it wasn't as long as my normal period we did use protection but i dont know if it came of while we were finishing, i got cramp in my stomache last night but it doesnt feel hard im due on next week so hopefully ill come on ! :S im just really worried and i cant tell anyone really thats i knowdoes it sound like i might be pregnant or am i just worrying?
well there is a possibilaty you can still get your period and be pregnant.
Well I am 15&My Boyfriend is 15 also. We been together for 1 year&6months, but like we have been having sex. We done it 3 times8the last time we done it we didn't us a condom&&well i been acting diff,& well we both play sports, and ii just wanna find out sooner, because me doing all this sports can hurt the baby. He told me his gonna be with me forever&if i am his gonna ask for my hand. which thats good news to hear. my tummy been getting hard. last time we had sex was about 2 months ago.Oh&&ii Almost forgot. His happy.! He wants to be a dad, but like ii tell him we to young, but if ii am. imma have da baby no matter wat!! We both scared, but if ii am we gonna do wat we can!!
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